Please help me not call him
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Please help me not call him
| Fri, 02-11-2005 - 8:22pm |
Me and OM mutally ended it. I haven't told H about it yet, but I feel like it might slip off my tongue. I've emailed OM to reach out to him to see how he is doing and I want to call him so bad...he hasn't returned any emails....he didnt show at work today...I am worried (or maybe worry is an excuse to convince myself its ok to call) the phone is in my hand and I want to call right now...please convince me to stop. this is ripping me apart inside.
Edited 4/14/2005 2:09 pm ET ET by spanishtrain
Edited 4/14/2005 2:09 pm ET ET by spanishtrain

ST
"or maybe worry is an excuse to convince myself its ok to call" DING DING DING The right answer.
Put that phone down and think about Ripping the heart out of your husbands chest rather then about yourself, if you keep this up he will be the one who has to pay for your fling.
STOP NOW, go do something else leave the phone home you don't need it.
Free
SP
Time, pain and experience, you learn to deal with the short term pain to avoid inflicting it long term on yourself and everyone in your life.
Consider the price that OTHERS have to pay for your actions.
Don't doubt yourself or the decisions you have made to clean up your act, when your going throught the withdrawl from the affair your mind can and will play tricks on you.
Free
hey SP,
i have been dying to call OW and leave a message but i have not, its just gonna make u feel realy worst, its worst already , just dont call anymore, its gonna get better as they say
hey FREE, thanks for your words, i know u from the other board and i am happy u are in this board also, u give us some realy good insights
thanks,
max