Long, but interesting stuff - rang my bells like no one's business. I know which I was. :)
Here's an excerpt:-
"When love and sexuality are used as a way to cope, rather than a way to grow and share, partner choice becomes distorted. Compatibility becomes based on "whether or not you will leave me", "how intense our sex life is" or "how I can cajole you into staying", rather than on whether you might truly become a confidante, friend and companion."
Here's that Chaser/Runaway link again, hon. :)
Long, but interesting stuff - rang my bells like no one's business. I know which I was. :)
Here's an excerpt:-
"When love and sexuality are used as a way to cope, rather than a way to grow and share, partner choice becomes distorted. Compatibility becomes based on "whether or not you will leave me", "how intense our sex life is" or "how I can cajole you into staying", rather than on whether you might truly become a confidante, friend and companion."
http://website.lineone.net/~dr.mgm/relationships.html
Wishing you strength & peace,
Posie
Edited 10/5/2004 10:00 am ET ET by posiepops