Posiepops where are you???????

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Registered: 12-05-2003
Posiepops where are you???????
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Thu, 09-30-2004 - 10:47am
I think we all need to stand in line and you smack each one of us. Im having a weak moment this morning. Help me pleas. Im even going to cut in front of the other two so I can be first. Geez I don't know what the heck is my problem lately.

Soul.

I will not break it, I will not break it, I will not break it, I will not break it.

THE NC IS BEST
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Thu, 09-30-2004 - 10:58am
Here I am, Soul - dressed all in black, breathing heavily and waving my NC stick!

Psst! Want to know what the secret to NC is? *looks around furtively*

The secret is...You have a choice here. And just by exercising that free will and making that choice to maintain NC, you regain your power. You also have the choice to give your power away again. *shrug* It really is your own call, hon.

By choosing to *not* to play EMA communication-tag games, as well as breaking the vicious circle, it also makes a statement that you demand respect. If you require respect, others have no option but to give it to you since you won't hang around to be dis-respected.

"Right this moment, I choose not to contact exMM," doesn't sound like much, does it? I can do just about anything for a moment, right? Let the hours and the days worry about themselves, just worry about this moment right now.

Wishing you strength & peace,

Posie

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Registered: 09-30-2003
Thu, 09-30-2004 - 11:00am
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Edited 10/1/2004 6:20 pm ET ET by sally289
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Thu, 09-30-2004 - 11:05am
Posie, Your right with all you say. I will not contact OM. I need to get my act together and realize I'm a strong woman and can over come this weak moment. Thank you now I'm going to get off this computer and go do something for me.

Until later ladies, Soul
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Registered: 05-02-2004
Thu, 09-30-2004 - 11:32am
Hey girls....

We just had a very emotional full moon that could be the recent cause for so many of you posting recently for help with NC. There will be days that are much tougher than others....my only advice is to keep focused on all of the uglies affairs cause, far more than any good reasons to continue. They are WRONG! They are belittling! They ruin families! What more do you need to understand? Not get with the program...... ;)

~True~


Edited 9/30/2004 1:49 pm ET ET by b_true_2_yourself