Pregnancy Scare - AP - THE END.

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Registered: 07-28-2010
Pregnancy Scare - AP - THE END.
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Fri, 08-06-2010 - 3:07pm

Well, for the last 2 weeks, my stomach has felt like in knots, everytime I eat I am full within a couple bites, I can't say I have had nausea but been very achy and my stomach has felt like it's about to explode out to a million pieces. I have 2 young boys so I know what it felt like in the start but I also have 4 friends who have given birth in the last month.


My times with AP are no protection. (I know, I know) I thought I was alone on this until I read the post about protection with AP...but anyways...I have the Mirena in. I swore there was no way to get a positive with that. I have not had sex with H in over 3 mths but sex with AP, 7 times in 3 months....including yesterday when he came back thru my town and it was a wonderful moment (twice this week) and I felt spoiled by getting to see him so soon again.


This morning, the stomach pressure/discomfort was unbearable. My pshyche was all messed up and I was tripping out. I bought a test at lunch and took it. It didn't work - was invalid for some reason - no lines at all. I just bought another and thankfully - it was negative with just 1 line. OMG. So...Ive learned a huge lesson today. I did not tell AP as I know he would FREAK OUT! So far since yesterday afternoon, it has been NC by me. I know I need a break. This scare was emotionally threw the roof....no ones fault of course but mine. I accept that. But the thought of telling H or him finding out kid could've not been his, etc.. that would no doubt be D-DAY IN THE FULLEST.


Im taking a break from AP. His mom is dying of cancer, the disatance between us sucks, todays ordeal and I figure it's good to breath...alone...for a bit. Does anyone know of anyone who has gotten a positive...with someone elses child besides their husband? I may be on this board more often now that I know...this has got to end...if not forever...at least for now.


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Registered: 04-20-2009
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 3:42pm

Confused,
Did you mean to post this on MAS? I'm being sincere. I really think you intended this for the other board, no?

Dee

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Registered: 06-17-2010
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 4:06pm

It looks like she posted it in both places, but on EAS, she added "The End" to the subject.

So, Confused - is it The End?

Bodhi

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Registered: 12-31-2009
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 4:39pm
I agree with Bodhi and Dee.