Pregnant and dumped by MM

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Registered: 08-18-2003
Pregnant and dumped by MM
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Tue, 03-01-2005 - 2:49pm

Well i recently found out that I'm pregnant by MM. He's been married for about two years and I'm engaged to be married. When I told him I was pregnant, and that it was his, he told me that he wished he could leave and never look back but that he couldn't do that because it wasn't the right thing to do.

My emotions were running rampant and I desperately didn't want to lose my finace (whom I love dearly) so he convinced me to tell my finace that he was the father (I know, big mistake)and I did. MM and I ended our "romantic" relationship but he promised he would be there for emotional support.

Since then he hasn't returned any of my emails and hasn't called. I just can't accepted that he's gone and out of my life forever, especially since I'm carrying his child. I'm having a hard time dealing with being dumped and lied to. I want desperately to let go and forgive him for acting this way. How can I say goodbye to him when I have a constant reminder of him in my life?

I'm not sure when my life became a Maury Povich show, but I desperately want a normal life again. I'm tired of checking my emails and waiting for the phone to ring. I know what I did was a mistake and I will regret it forever, but how can I move on from this?

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Registered: 03-13-2004
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 1:35am

banster,

in the end its all up to u to decide, u know what would be best, we all can tell u our opinion and maybe u can use those opinions and make your own, u have to consider everything, u have all kinds of options

i dont know if u are religious, maybe your priest or someone can give u advice in that level also, pls dont decide in haste, i know it is stressful right now but u have to take care of yourself, there is another life within u know

pls take care of yourself,

max

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