Proud of myself!

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Registered: 09-17-2004
Proud of myself!
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Mon, 10-11-2004 - 12:07pm
Hi everyone hope you all had a great weekend!

I've been busy working and spending some good quality time with H.

I have good news!!!!

For four days I have had total...NC WITH OM!!!!!!!!

I know it's not much! I'm still really pleased with myself. It's helped that I'm kept busy so there hasn't been (much!) temptation to contact OM. Usually we communicate in some way every day.

The hardest time was last night when I saw HIM on my buddy list and I was tempted to send an i.m but I resisted!

I was worried that he may text/call/i'm me and I'm pleased to say he has not. For a day or so I did wonder WHY he hasn't but I wont allow myself to waste energy thinking about it.

He thinks we are friends and friends don't contact each other every day so I'm taking it as I good sign.

I am determined that we will stay friends after this but for now the N.C is working for me and I'm satisfied with that.

I'll admit it... You all were right... N.C, N.C, N.C!!!

thankyou,

m x

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Registered: 06-28-2004
Mon, 10-11-2004 - 12:18pm
Congratulations, Cocktail!

You should celebrate every accomplishment! They might SEEM small but they will add up to big progress. Keep us posted! You are definately on the right track!

Love,

Lily
Love, Lily PG with #1 EDD 11/23 baby
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Registered: 12-28-2003
Mon, 10-11-2004 - 3:32pm
Wheres

May I be the first to say I TOLD YOU SO, NAH NAH NAH, JUST KIDDING :-).

I got to say I love these meds.

Congratulations on taking the first steps in getting you personal power and life back, 4 days are 4 days for some they can be an eternity, so don't be little what you have accomplished.

I suggest keep pumping energy into your marriage you will reap a dividend of one sort or another in time.

JMHO

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Registered: 09-21-2004
Mon, 10-11-2004 - 5:33pm
Dear Where---

Four days is great--congratulations!!!

Keeping busy is the key--we all need to fill up the time we wasted being with him/talking to him/IMing him/thinking about him/etc/etc/ -- fill it up with productive healthy things! Like what you are doing -- spending time with your H :-)

Consider taking XOM off your buddy list though -- I know it's a big step -- but it's one more small thing that will make things easier! Keep up the good work!

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