Question??

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Question??
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Tue, 02-08-2005 - 11:09am

What's the longest you have managed to go with NC? Did any of you feel that NC was a bad/good thing? Did it help the situation, you know either ended it for good or made you closer?

These questions probably don't make any sense but it's how I'm feeling right now? That temptation to call is killing me, especially since the last two calls were initiated by me?

Doves

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Registered: 12-28-2004
In reply to: doves6
Tue, 02-08-2005 - 4:31pm

My heart goes out to you Max. I know how you feel, I'm sick to my stomach every day. The worst feeling is having that person as the first thing on your mind the second your eyes open. As if dreaming of them isn't enough.

I don't have a clue when it ends or get's easier but everyone here is helpful.

Hang in there, fight the urge to call (I'm no good at that so believe me I know how you feel). I called today after he did, it's a horrible yo-yo effect!! I wish I had better advice but I feel as horrible as you do. All I can say is keep busy, doing everything you can to get her off your mind.

Lots of HUGS!!!
Doves

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