quick q for iddy

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Registered: 01-04-2010
quick q for iddy
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Wed, 09-15-2010 - 10:14pm

hi iddy,
just wondering--what is the difference between the EAS board and the After the Affair board? i was curious to check ou tthe community there, figuring it would be more vets, but i see a lot of posters who just got out of their As. i was just wondering what the difference is, besides just that there are different cl's and different posters.

thanks!
exi

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 6:51am

The only difference is of personal choice. In actuality, we all should be posting there if our A is over but those who start out here seem to want to stay here. Also, just because we've ended our A does not mean we have processed that ending yet. That could take months to do, sometimes years. The board wasn't developed until several years ago, so I was pretty much at home here by then. I think it would be wise to read both and then decide where you are most comfortable.



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   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 02-25-2010
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 7:42am

Hi Exi



I tend to thnk of AAS as more of a debate board where everyone wherever they end up AP's, xAP's BS, WS, stbx's, MM,MW, SW, SM

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 7:55am

It is not a debate board. Are you thinking of the Allsides of the Affair Board? Now that is for debates from ALL sides of the situation. That's where I started out in 2004 until I found the Endings board.

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 02-25-2010
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 8:02am

Sorry Iddy



yes i meant all sides of the affair = debate



EAS/BSS

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New Challenges,

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Registered: 01-04-2010
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 1:10pm

thanks for your feedback gals. i've been reading a bit on AAS--seems like its actually quite similar to EAS, but gets a lot less traffic. i try to come here daily and am constantly seeing new posts. its quieter there. the CL seems very cool though, and its probably a great community.

in terms of the All Sides board, it is more of a debate board. i actually posted somethign on there once, got completely flamed, and stopped posting. i think there are far more BS's there than there are A havers.

anyway, there is no substitute for all the awesome chicks on this board :)

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Registered: 02-25-2010
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 5:41pm

Hi Exi



Now i am no PhD student ..but here is some irony straight back at chai



think there are far more BS's there than there are A havers.



Surely for every BS there is an xAP,

New Choices, New Chapter,


New Challenges,