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| Wed, 09-15-2010 - 10:14pm |
hi iddy,
just wondering--what is the difference between the EAS board and the After the Affair board? i was curious to check ou tthe community there, figuring it would be more vets, but i see a lot of posters who just got out of their As. i was just wondering what the difference is, besides just that there are different cl's and different posters.
thanks!
exi

The only difference is of personal choice. In actuality, we all should be posting there if our A is over but those who start out here seem to want to stay here. Also, just because we've ended our A does not mean we have processed that ending yet. That could take months to do, sometimes years. The board wasn't developed until several years ago, so I was pretty much at home here by then. I think it would be wise to read both and then decide where you are most comfortable.
((Hugs))
~Iddy~
Hi Exi
I tend to thnk of AAS as more of a debate board where everyone wherever they end up AP's, xAP's BS, WS, stbx's, MM,MW, SW, SM
New Choices, New Chapter,
New Challenges,
It is not a debate board. Are you thinking of the Allsides of the Affair Board? Now that is for debates from ALL sides of the situation. That's where I started out in 2004 until I found the Endings board.
~Iddy~
Sorry Iddy
yes i meant all sides of the affair = debate
EAS/BSS
New Choices, New Chapter,
New Challenges,
thanks for your feedback gals. i've been reading a bit on AAS--seems like its actually quite similar to EAS, but gets a lot less traffic. i try to come here daily and am constantly seeing new posts. its quieter there. the CL seems very cool though, and its probably a great community.
in terms of the All Sides board, it is more of a debate board. i actually posted somethign on there once, got completely flamed, and stopped posting. i think there are far more BS's there than there are A havers.
anyway, there is no substitute for all the awesome chicks on this board :)
Hi Exi
Now i am no PhD student ..but here is some irony straight back at chai
think there are far more BS's there than there are A havers.
Surely for every BS there is an xAP,
New Choices, New Chapter,
New Challenges,