ran into xAP this morning
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| Mon, 03-22-2010 - 12:12pm |
I stopped at the grocery store on the way to work this morning and ran into xAP. I heard, "Dee?" (not my really, insert my real name there) and turned around to be facing xAP. Guess what I was buying! Monostat. Yep. I have a yeast infection. hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! So, there I was.... monostat in hand, along with a powerbar and a six pack of diet Coke. OMG. Could it get any funnier. Maybe. If I'd been buying condoms and lube. But, alas, no.
He said, "HI! how are you." and I replied, "I'm great. but, I have to run... late for work." and I said 'bye' and walked on by.
I probably would have been all verklempt, but thank goodness I was too focused on being mortified! ha.
(and, NO, E1. I did NOT hug him.)
I hope everyone has a good Monday.
xo
Dee

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Whenever I'm in a situation where there's even a remote chance I may run into him, I usually mentally prepare myself for the possible encounter - I think I generally obsess way too much over it, but regardless - whenever the encounter occurs, I'm DETERMINED to act as aloof as possible. I don't plan to be mean (I'm all bark with little bite and he wouldn't believe it anyway), and I also won't get all doe-eyed and stupid like I've done in the past. I mean, the other times we've gone NC, and I've run into him, it's been all romantic and BS and always ends with us right back in the A.
Hey there always -
Just wanted to clarify something that I said.
I got through this situation because E1 gave me a butt kicking from the last time I ran into him. I flubbed that encounter and E1 told me _exactly_ what I did wrong and how to handle next time. I actually practiced it in the bathroom mirror! I have been laughing all day thinking that I should have responded to his "so, how are you?" by nodding to Monostat in my hand and shrugging "yeah, yeast infection..."
To all: thanks for the kudos. I am actually quite proud of myself, too! ;)
xo
Dee
Way to go Dee! I've avoided seeing him so far, but I know it's inevitable. I pray I handle it as well as you did.
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