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| Mon, 09-06-2004 - 2:52pm |
Incredible coincidence - Did any of you see Dr. Phil this morning??? It was all about affairs, from different people's perspectives. It was so hard to watch. There was a married couple where the H had an A, but he won't really say he'll never do it again. Dr. Phil says he has to stop cheating and lying. But I don't think Dr. Phil has any idea what kind of feelings some of us have in A's. He didn't seem to realize that it's not just about sex. There's emotions and love too. Then there was a 41 year old single woman, who's only had relationships with MM. She's been in SEVEN relationships over 25 years! She says she doesn't even know how to meet a single guy, how to have a normal relationship, what a normal relationship is. Did any of you see it?
One more question: Do any of you feel bad when people write here nasty things about their MM? Like, 'now I see him for the liar he is', etc. I have a very hard time with this. I know what my MM did was wrong. But it was wrong of me too. I still love him and think he is a wonderful, kind, person, who never meant to be the 'bad guy', just as all of us never meant to be the 'mistress.' Nevertheless, I know I must stop this A and I will try to have NC - forever? - or until he becomes single (I know, unrealistic fantasy).
I hope I get responses from some of you, because my other posts didn't really, and I don't know why.

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Good luck in your journey to freedom.
~True~
Edited 2/15/2005 6:12 pm ET ET by iris304
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