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Registered: 04-20-2009
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Sun, 11-07-2010 - 9:53am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-17-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 11:27am

I love your random thoughts :) Mind if I add mine from this morning?

I'm glad that I realize that my happiness is not connected to another person.

If I want a man to help me fix my sink (like I did yesterday), I need to find a man that single (and handy around the house....)

I wish that I had the self confidence to move forward with my life a little faster than I am.

Life is tough, each day that I waste is a day I'll never get back.

Bodhi

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 11:52am

I like this, Dee. Mind if I add a few of my random thoughts today?

Karma is a bitch

It feels so good to be where I am today versus where I was one year ago. The ending of the A is still new and painful but when I compare it to being in the midst of my A a year ago, I am so happy that my thoughts and actions today are not dependent on him.

I love my H, family, friends, community and my cats.

I think I will be okay from here forward in regards to getting over xAP, however, I know that the hardest--and perhaps most painful--work lies ahead as I look within myself to try and figure out what my issues are and how to fix them. I am scared.

I have a good H for whom I'm grateful. However, our M need a LOT of work and right now, I just don't have the strength to work on it.

I have not told H about the A and am torn about that.

My heart goes out to Cait and WWWM right now because of their intense pain.

I am strengthened by the success stories of so many of the women on this board.

People who have affairs are not necessarily bad people. Just wounded people.

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
In reply to: deeulta
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 5:04pm

Hi Dee,

I loved your random stuff.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 6:44pm

Love your random thoughts Dee.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-17-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 7:10pm

Cait -

RL = real life

:)

Bodhi

PS - there is an abbreviation list in the healing library - I'll try to find it and bump it up

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2007
In reply to: deeulta
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 8:20pm
Cait---real life :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-22-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 8:32pm

Amen Sister, Amen.

I wish I could evict him from my thoughts.

I really miss

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 4:52am

Hmmm adding some:

I also have to actively and forcefully stay in RL- I am seeing more and more that this is what caused the A- the escapism.

My 'love' for him was love for the escapist thrill- thats all.

I have a better life than I could possibly deserve!

The best revenge is to live a great life.

Im also peeved that my stress manifested into a whole new butt! And several chins. And back fat! WTF!! Time to deal with stress and avoidance, and kick the back fat to the curb :)

You are what you consistently do
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2009
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 8:44am

Great post Dee.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 9:13am

I like this Random Thoughts tread.

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