Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
CG, Just a thought... do you think that you might have deep seated issues with H and your M that you're not addressing and that you're sabotaging your M in a back-door way? I agree with all that you really should be discussing this in therapy. Control issues, sexual addiction, subconscious self-destruction, narcissistic tendencies? None of us here are qualified to diagnose or treat your state. What I can say, though, is that irrespective of your _feelings_, you have it within your power to control your behavior. Setting up boundaries - very clear black and white rules for conduct - will keep you from acting on unhealthy impulses.
Hi CG :)
I think you can get ideas from the folks here as to what is taking place (and mine's coming :), but it sounds to me that sitting with a
Hi CG,
You could be addicted to the “feeling” of falling in love.
It could be that you use sex as a form of control or manipulation. Get the person interested and enticed and then use it as a form of control.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
The one thing that stuck out to me in your post is the underlying "more, more, more.
Well there's a new one for the abbreviations list...... i got the gist of it but had to google the literal translation
New Choices, New Chapter,
New Challenges,
CG,
Just a thought... do you think that you might have deep seated issues with H and your M that you're not addressing and that you're sabotaging your M in a back-door way? I agree with all that you really should be discussing this in therapy. Control issues, sexual addiction, subconscious self-destruction, narcissistic tendencies? None of us here are qualified to diagnose or treat your state. What I can say, though, is that irrespective of your _feelings_, you have it within your power to control your behavior. Setting up boundaries - very clear black and white rules for conduct - will keep you from acting on unhealthy impulses.
Best of luck to you.
Dee
Thank you to all of you.