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Realisation
| Thu, 01-06-2011 - 10:57pm |
It occured to me today that I have made such a shambles of trying to do this whole A thing and the ending thing on my own and my own way that I'm willing to concede that all the advice on here - from people standing OUTSIDE my life - is, on balance, probably worth taking.

Not probably worth taking...it is worth taking! And not only because we are people standing OUTSIDE your own life...but rather we are people who have all stood in your shoes....or um sandals as it were!
We have all made shambles of our lives...as we all made shambles of ourselves by engaging in the A. You have gotten lots of great advice here, I have followed your story and even though I have been away...I know it is in you to move past this. It will take time, it will be hard.... But you will do it, and we are all here to help.
So yes please...take the advice on here as more important than gold. Go read every single post in the healing library that your little eyes can bare...and then read two more!!! Start NC again...right now! No more worry about why he is not contact you...only so that you can contact him.
Lulu...right now. Take my hand. Open your heart and your ears to the words spoken from all the wonderful women here. The advice here is not only worth taking, but you will come to find is so wise its worth passing on.
Wishing you a peaceful day, and know that you are not alone. There is a way...and its this way over here....
Sending strong commitment vibes your way
Peace&light
Foggy
Yes it is WORTH TAKING!
Misslulu,
All I can tell you is that when I pulled my fingers out of my ears and really, really listened to and heeded the advice these beautiful, caring and unselfish people were willing to share with me, well....that's when things really started changing for me.
Misslulu,
Misslulu,
It is the best decision even though none of us wanted to face that.