Realistic or not??

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2009
Realistic or not??
7
Tue, 09-08-2009 - 3:36pm

Hello all – I am so very confused right now. I was involved in an A for about a year. Long story short, we work together, we only went all the way once, he was gone for a while (about 2 weeks) and before he left we had a big fight, we both said we were done and no more, well upon his returning, things were very different, he has been extra sweet to me, joking with me like he use to, and then I took him something and when I sent him an email telling him it was ready he said “on my way legs”, that was the first time since our fight he has “flirted” with me, plus I’ve noticed his looking at me in a seductive way at particular parts of my body also.


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 09-08-2009 - 4:09pm
Hi LIGA,

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2009
Tue, 09-08-2009 - 4:41pm
NOT
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2008
Wed, 09-09-2009 - 9:55am

"on my way legs", that was the first time since our fight he has "flirted" with me, plus I've noticed his looking at me in a seductive way at particular parts of my body also."


Sorry, Life - but this ain't being "friends".

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-03-2009
Wed, 09-09-2009 - 12:41pm
Hi LIGA, it sounds to me as if he's flirting with you to see if maybe you'll reconsider get back into the A. I don't think he's trying to be your friend. If he were trying to be "just friends" with you, he wouldn't dangle the carrot in front of you like that. He'd be nice, but not too nice. I'm a big flirt, so I know when I'm flirting to just be silly and when I'm flirting to see if there's a reaction. It seems to me that he's flirting to get a reaction. Don't bite.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2009
Wed, 09-09-2009 - 1:05pm

Thank all of you for your input, I really do appreciate it.


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2009
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 12:55pm

I always find myself making stupid excuses to condone actions on my end and MM end, all while everyone else is telling me the same thing; we will end up sleeping together again so WHY do I continue to make excuses and think … na, we are friends and it’s okay now, we will be good…*SIGH* we are suppose to go on a bike ride together, lets just say because he “owes me”….and I plan on it being a fun and innocent thing, am I in denial?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-07-2009
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 1:06pm
I am sorry, but yes.