REALITY CHECK!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2009
REALITY CHECK!
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Mon, 02-22-2010 - 7:41pm

I am a big believer in "paying it forward"... so in that spirit this message comes to all of you that are struggling right now.


I am a couple of months out of my A and I just wanted to share some thoughts that were shared with me when I too was struggling over and over and over again with ending my A.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2008
In reply to: lynn0708
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 7:58pm

If you let this A continue life as you now know it can be gone in the blink of an eye.

I deserve my Dignity.
NC since 2/4/2010
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2009
In reply to: lynn0708
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 8:03pm

AMEN!


Here is to being healthy and toxic free!


HugsL

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2010
In reply to: lynn0708
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 8:16pm

Thank you so much for posting this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-04-2009
In reply to: lynn0708
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:06pm

Lynn -


Thank you for this.

NC since October 2, 2009.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2009
In reply to: lynn0708
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:53pm
THANK YOU. :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2009
In reply to: lynn0708
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 8:05am

Good Morning Gal~


You summed it up perfectly!


It's amazing how easy it is to forget about the immense, long-term risks for the minor, short-lived highs.


Have a great day!


L


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2009
In reply to: lynn0708
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 2:36pm

I fell off . . . sad sad today. I left last night and sent him a text as I was driving home; it read "You make me feel bad when I come and when I go. I am sorry this even started; but this is the end. I am done. Do not contact me ever again." He replied "I am done too".


I am not sad that its done. I am sad that this guy has had every ounce of my willpower for 3 years. 3 years of lies, 3 years of disappointing MYSELF.


I am back to dispair mode....I feel like a complete WHORE.


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
In reply to: lynn0708
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 2:46pm

Hotpants,
Is this your first time posting? May I suggest you begin your own thread so that you can tell us your story and we can properly welcome and support you -- and you won't be buried under other posts.

Best,
Dee

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2009
In reply to: lynn0708
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 3:02pm

HP!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
In reply to: lynn0708
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 3:09pm

Gosh, Hotpants.
I'm so sorry I didn't recognize your moniker! You've posted often; I don't know where my head is at today.

Apologies!
Dee

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