Really can't breathe today

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Registered: 08-30-2010
Really can't breathe today
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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 12:37pm

I had a great night last night.

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Wed, 11-10-2010 - 12:56pm

Cait,

(((HUGS))).

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Registered: 11-22-2009
Wed, 11-10-2010 - 1:05pm

((Cait))

You are having a low tolerance day and they happen. That, or you are PMSing.:smileywink: I remember feeling like this more times than not (hah! Still do sometimes) in the beginning. Irritability is part of the anger phase, so be prepared to have more days like this off and on. If you don't feel like going out tonight, then don't. One of the first things us women have to learn to say is "NO" when we don't want to do something or go somewhere. Becoming assertive is very important in gaining back our self respect.

Your patience is at an all time low right now too. There's no point in my telling you to try to be more understanding toward your coworkers either. Hey, everyone has one of those days, and in my case, weeks. :smileytongue: Just try your best to get through the rest of the day and hope that tomorrow you will be in more control of your emotions. Limit your caffeine if you are a big drinker of coffee or pop, and stick to water or herbal tea.

This too shall pass.

((Hugs))

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 10-14-2010
Wed, 11-10-2010 - 1:14pm

Hi Cait,

I'd hug you ...but usually when Im p'd off...hugs make me feel like a caged tiger! :)

I do this...when Im mad....(and NOT the pms variety) ...I ask myself,

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 10-16-2010
Wed, 11-10-2010 - 1:26pm

Yes Cait you are having a low tolerance day!