Really Looking at XAP - Physical Looks?
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Really Looking at XAP - Physical Looks?
| Tue, 02-02-2010 - 3:40pm |
I did not know how to put that discussion title out there, but I read somewhere ( maybe it was even here) about when we have A's, that we date down so to speak.
I was thinking about my XAP and I realized, what

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Yes I am definitely understanding where you're coming from!
My xAP has a really fat stomach, is not that great looking (but I believed so at the time!), overeats and eats too fast, burps way way too much, binge drinks, smokes pot to 'escape' from RL etc etc etc...
On the other hand, my beautiful H takes care of himself, has a nice body, runs and lifts a few weights, has the most gorgeous smile, and is the most caring and best communicator ever.
WHAT IS WITH THAT??!! My H still shakes his head and just can't believe why I 'fell for' xAP......!
Edited 2/25/2010 10:46 am ET by jilly1983
Hmm...
2 sides to this.
Xap was beautiful IMO. She was curvy (I like the extra weight) and had a very pretty face. Cannot compare to H as men and women are apples and oranges. Her attitude sucked sometimes.
H is handsome to me - I'm sure he is not to every woman. He has a wonderful personality - patient, kind, gentle, giving. Everyone who gets to know him loves him. It's hard not to because he treats everyone nicely and is helpful to others.
I'm sorry, but this tread is cracking me UP!
How are all these dudes (and chick) getting so much play!?
There is something to this but I think I'd need a Psych PhD to figure it out.
XAP -- scores a 9.5
Dw ---- 9
XAPDH === 8
Cheater Husband - Quite High
Muddy Waters
Thanks for sharing, I have to say alot of the replies made me laugh!
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