Reasons for getting trapped in an A-hole
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|Sat, 04-28-2012 - 8:29pm|
Okay...so what are everyone's thoughts on why A's even happen? What is so attractive about the A-hole? Is it boredom in M? In RL? Is it caused by needs not being met on a regular basis? A void in one's own RL that desperately needs to be filled? (falling into an A-hole is an ironic way to fill one - think about that) Why is it so addictive? Attractive at first, addictive at best, a trap to be certain...
So, I was doing some reading (not in the HL, but I really should get my rear-end down there soon and read some more), and found this article on the web. Here is the link: http://www.beyondaffairs.com/articles/why-howtoprevent.htm
This couple came up with around 300 reasons why affairs happen and how to prevent them. It is an excellent article. Should have posted it over in the HL...my bad. Maybe I will get it over there, too.
I encourage you all to read and post your thoughts here. Maybe we can come up with some more reasons and some solutions as well. I will do some more seeking to see if I can find an article coming from a single person's perspective...this one deals with married couples.