Recap of the last 3 Months

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Recap of the last 3 Months
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Tue, 01-11-2011 - 8:21pm

Hi Everybody -

I know you've seen my FACE posted all up and down the timeline as a replier - and being a heavy weight poster in the healing library and finally, who can forget my MONTHLY melt downs when my Emotional Crap Hits the Fan.

Today, when I was out driving around my beautifully sunny city, It was the first time I began thinking and reflecting on HOW MUCH PROGRESS AND HOW MUCH WORK I've put in for 3 months STEADY.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Wed, 01-12-2011 - 1:56pm

Ohhhh Jen,

Thank you!

I admire your class & steady 'low keyness'. It's such the opposite of my style - that I ALWAYS take note when you post.

Your calmness is admirable, CLASSY and steadily nurturing.

Im glad you're in my graduating class, Jen. :)

Much Love to you,

Michelle

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Wed, 01-12-2011 - 2:29pm

Michelle, I'm so grateful to have this little community of ours as well.

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Wed, 01-12-2011 - 2:46pm
ME TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! NC AND FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WE get to SHINE AGAIN!!!!!!

xoxo
Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 09-28-2010
Wed, 01-12-2011 - 2:54pm

Dear M.

Late to your party (:

You came to this board hungry for change - like you noted, little did you know at the time that the changes you NEEDED to make would be final, and not temporary. Quickly you received the words of truth spoken here and started to apply them to yourself and the xMM. You have worked hard, tripped up once and a while in the old "thinking" department, only to quickly reflect on your rants and see where all those feelings were coming from.

You've come to embrace what we know is true of all affairs and all XAPs: there is nothing special nor unique about one of our stories. Only the flavors of the ice-cream are different, but they are all craptastically terrible Ice-Cream Sundaes sprinkled with lies & manipulation, tolerance & collusion in crimes against loves ones.

3 months into the rest of your life. One in which taking care of yourself and being healthy DOESN'T mean feeling entitled to own/have/posses whatever you want at the expense of others.

((HUGS)).

TU.

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Wed, 01-12-2011 - 3:24pm

AT least you showed up! :) (with NOSE ring in) (Ya..I KNOW Always! It TRIPPED ME UP TOO!!!)

You freakin Rock Star, TU! (now

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Wed, 01-12-2011 - 3:34pm

What is this nose ring story?

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Wed, 01-12-2011 - 3:39pm

dammit! I want one too!! Ive always wanted one! but Im an Accountant and CAN'T get away with it. :(

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Wed, 01-12-2011 - 3:44pm

Michelle, I'm a Credit Analyst in a very large corporation, I cover all of

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Wed, 01-12-2011 - 6:54pm

REALLY??!?!??!?!?

Hmmm....Maybe I should!

:)

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Wed, 01-12-2011 - 6:58pm
LOL...do it Michelle! :)
I think as long as the nose ring is tasteful you should be able to get away with it...but I'd check with other professional contacts and ask them what their input is.