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Mon, 12-27-2004 - 7:29am

Affairs are so excitiing. Someone thinks you are really special, so much so, that he will not share you with anyone. He tells you how much you make him feel alive again, that his marriage is dead but stays there for his kids. You think, "How noble. He just loves his kids too much to leave her," and so you hang on to the dream that over time he will change his mind. YOU can get him to fall in love with you, and then someday he will leave that terrible marriage and want to be with you. In the meantime, something begins to transform inside of you that is uncomfortable, unexplainable, and you start to question his motives....and your insecurities....


And then you begin to

 

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Registered: 12-02-2004
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 2:33pm

Hi my little sweet potato! Thanks for asking about me! I have been having a rough weekend into this week. The job-burnout is about to kill me. And I keep having these crazy dreams about xOM where he is actually a good person, with a hot bod and a sexy french accent. HA HA HA And he's hanging out at Sears, which I find funny because I think it is actually representative of him being such a freaking TOOL!
Do I sound Bitter? lol
I keep thinking it has to get better. I KNOW it will get better. I Just wish I could expedite this request for like Thurdsday say noonish?
I need to really smile again!

hugs and kisses
~nuttmeg

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Registered: 06-02-2004
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 3:29pm

(((NuttyMeg))))

<<<>>

LMAO!!! Well you know, they say we all have a twin somewhere in this world. Do they have "Sears" in France?? <<>> Could you have been astral projecting??? Ok, I'm just messing with you...I think you got the "Sears" confused with "Shears" and what you are subconsciously hoping for is that "IT" will get cut off. <<<>>>

Ahhh, cutie-pie, it's gonna be okay. One day at a time....

Id

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Registered: 06-02-2004
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 3:40pm

(((Diva)))

Gosh darl'n...It wasn't my intent to make you feel bad. Just remember, affairs are selfish acts for all parties involved, no one can take the full blame, but we must *OWN* up to our part of it! We made a choice, and even though we discover that it was the wrong one, unless we open our minds to why we took that wrong turn, we'll do it again. I don't know about you sweetie, but I am definately done being a DOOOO-FUS!!

Id

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Registered: 10-05-2004
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 4:59pm

id,

You are SO right...in fact that is WHY I started T - because I knew if I didn't get to the root of the problem, I would end up doing it again (as horrible as that sounds to say!!).

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TOTALLY AGREE WITH YA BABE!!!

Diva

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Registered: 11-29-2004
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 10:48pm

I have never seen that before. I'm amazed somebody would actually lift your post word-for-word and not even bother to attribute it to you. I guess it's a little flattering, but it would still piss me off. I take a bit of small pride in some of my better posts. At times I can spend a lot of time on them- way too much time. LOL. I don't get paid for it, but that's irrelevant. It's nice to receive a little recognition when somebody takes something meaningful from your thoughts.

That's really annoying, Id. I would respond and let that person know that plagiarizing anything, even forum posts, is just bad taste and displays a lack of sophistication. skippxt

Skip

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Registered: 06-02-2004
Wed, 01-19-2005 - 8:44am

Skip,

<<>>>

I did join that message board last night so I could ream her out. I tried to send her an email first, but she didn't have that option, SOOOOOOO, I put my complaint "OUT THERE!" My post didn't show up, so I thought maybe the cyber patrol ate it, but alas....it is there this morning. Someone has already responded with how this person brings so much to the board...."Ya Think???" Hah! Whatever, I feel better because I used to be such a wimp and let everybody walk all over me. One of the only good things that came out of having an affair is that I have no more tolerence for deceit on any level :)

Take care,

Id

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