Rejection....

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Rejection....
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Wed, 01-26-2011 - 11:57pm

I have to come here and ask for your opinions and support. I think I will already know most your opinions and no doubt that I will have you all's support.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 05-15-2010
Thu, 01-27-2011 - 1:42pm

Hi Luvin,

I think you should drop this guy like a hot potato.

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Registered: 12-31-2009
Thu, 01-27-2011 - 2:41pm

(((Luvin)))

I'm so sorry for the anguish you're going through.

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Thu, 01-27-2011 - 6:14pm

I mirror what the wise ladies before me have said, Bonita. :)

Plus we've talked about it, you know my 2 cents. :)

Im of the Iddy Philosophy and ESPECIALLY when It comes to the PACKAGE DEAL...2 strikes youre out. Maybe ONE because of the kids.

Once YOU define clearly who you are - then you can define what you're looking for in a mate. If Mr. Nice On Paper, isnt cuttin it (and DEFINITELY dealing with the kids

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 11-10-2010
Thu, 01-27-2011 - 8:50pm
Luvin, I have to try to post thisw from my phone, so forgive typos in advance but you are not the one whe needs a knock in the head. HE does. You are feeling bad about you bc u know you are worth more than these reindeer games. You have hard won appreciation for a good man. A man who will be smart enough to know he doesn't deserve you OR your kids, but he will want to spend the rest of his life showing you how grateful he is you love him anyway. Wait for him. I bet he's right around the corner.

You arfe beautiful and I don't need a photo to see that.

Xoxox

UBM
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Registered: 01-18-2010
Thu, 01-27-2011 - 10:53pm
Awww u guys have me in tears!! My gals. My EAS family. I so luv u guys n gals. I wrote my message when I was feeling sorry for myself. Thx for all the kind words. Going to bed, but will respond to all and give you an update that made me proud of me and will make you all proud as well. I knew you all would come n tell me what I already knew, but didn't want to face. I promise to jump in here tomorrow n fill you in, I also got some posting to do...gotta keep paying it forward.
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 10-14-2010
Fri, 01-28-2011 - 12:12am

Luver,

I just read this, and thought of you!

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Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 05-15-2010
Fri, 01-28-2011 - 8:19am
Michelle, that is beautiful.. I am going to save it..Thanks for posting.
MC
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Registered: 11-22-2009
Fri, 01-28-2011 - 9:53am

Michelle, I loved this. Thanks for posting it.

((Hugs))

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 10-17-2010
Fri, 01-28-2011 - 10:16am

Michelle,

Sorry late chirping in here but was traveling yesterday.

Awesome post.

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Sun, 01-30-2011 - 9:57am

You would be suprised how many people like me benefit from words from newbies like you....you push us and give us strength too. We heal ourselves when we post to you.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida