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| Sun, 05-02-2004 - 8:47pm |
I did not speak to him at all or acknowlegde him--nor he me. I didn't care when he talked with his wife. But he did go over and speak to "Mo." And yes, that bothered me. But ok. What am i going to do?
It must seem strange to our mutal friends--that we no longer speak to one another. I did tell my asst. coach (also a good friend of xMM's) that xMM no longer talks with me, doesn't thank me for what i do--yada yada yada--as sort of a cover. For the most part though, i refuse now, to cover for all that has happened, by acting like nothing ever did. People must see the tension and know. And honestly, i don't care anymore. My mode now is self preservation.
He seemed happy and relaxed. He left the field early with his family.
He knows. If he has any conscience at all, and i think he does, he knows. Now, he can live with that.
Another important step for me. He knows--that i am gone; i dont' think he cares, but he knows.
Clarice

Jazzdiva
CONGRATULATIONS!
ON A
TERRIFIC GAME!!
It doesn't take a lot of coaches to make a good team. It only takes one good coach and you're one!! Way to go, Clarice!
If only i could make them in my own heart/life BUT i am trying.
another day, week, month or year. I WILL ge there. that is a promise.
xOM's a jerk......
and a poor example of a coach.
You coach because you like to teach kids; NOT to salve your ego by winning.
Left with his family? Talked with the NEW replacement OW?
Rubbing it in your face?
Not much to mourn, is there?
Glad you're seeing his true colors while you're not in relationship any longer. A classic cake-eater.
It saddens me that you gave so much of yourself to your relationship with him and after all is said and done you truly meant so little to him.
Good luck on your next relationship. After the divorce........
You deserve to be first and recipient of full loving respectful attention, not an add-on.
cl-nre