Is this ridiculous???

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Registered: 10-05-2004
Is this ridiculous???
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Tue, 12-28-2004 - 6:04pm

Hey All -

Hope you had a great holiday! I went back east to visit family I hadn't seen in a long time. It was really great. My H got along so well with everyone. So, here is the ridiculous part...it sort of aggrevated me! Is that weird? I was doing ok as far as xOM goes - hadn't thought TOO much about him, just a little bit here and there, but the more everyone told me how much they liked H, the more I thought about xOM and got aggrevated with H!

Now, it's Tuesday and my friend just called and cancelled our New year's Eve plans! We were suppose to go out w/ her and her H (the 4 of us are very close friends), but they decided they didn't want to go out and are just going to have a quite evening at home. SCREW THAT! (I know, I'm being selfish)

I'm really feeling irritated and annoyed and frustrated and a whole bunch of other emotions that I don't understand. I really want to call xOM, but I know that is wrong and pointless and self defeating, - so I'm posting here instead.

Diva

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Registered: 12-26-2004
Fri, 12-31-2004 - 11:25pm

No problem. Glad to hear from you. I could have been with the family tonight but I'm tired of talking about everything and they're all ringing in the New Year in typical Irish fashion. I'm sure I'd have trouble staying away from the Jameson tonight if I didn't stay put here. It's not so bad, really. Anyway, I let Sang and ROI bust on me a little bit for old times sake. They took it easy on me. ROI had a classic toast for the New Year that sent me off my chair in hysterics:

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Happy New Year to you too.>>

Faith

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Fri, 12-31-2004 - 11:36pm

Diva

My marriage has about 21 years on yours and I can tell you your husband is pretty normal and so is your marriage, your going to have your ups and downs they are always going to forget things and do things sometimes that P/O you, trust me you do the same for him, its just life.

Reasonable expections of marriage and spouses comes from experience, so hang in there your just starting out.

I don't think anyone is trying to reem you out there just cheering real hard for you and your hubby to go the distance, everyone here is on yourside trust me on that.

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