Right on Que

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Registered: 08-27-2008
Right on Que
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Fri, 01-29-2010 - 5:29pm

i am so freakn pissed off right now.......why is it that every 6 weeks or so XAP tries to contact me. I came home from work today and there his home number was on my phone. no message or anything. I dont know if it was him that called or someone else from his home number(his mom). I wish I could block his damn number and be done with it.


Really,what is he calling for??? why cant he just leave me alone and let me move on with my life. I really dont care what he is doing with his, hes caused enough hurt and I just want it to be a thing of the past instead of the past coming back.


He contacted me on xmas day(you might remember the post) and since then Ive heard nothing. 2 weeks ago a call came in from CA and I thought maybe it was him if he got his orders. I dunno....I try so hard to accept things the way they are and as SOON as i get to feeling better...bam there he is again.


Should I contact him back and let him know to stick it where the sun dont shine or contuine to let him contact me every 6 weeks??


DM

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Registered: 04-20-2009
In reply to: dm2006
Fri, 01-29-2010 - 5:49pm

DM! you know the answer to contacting him to tell him to quit contacting you!

C'mon. You're fine! Shake it off. He ain't NO thang. You know what? You're so cool and over-it, you didn't even _notice_ his number on your phone. Right?? riiiight. (Go with it.)

Get on wit your bad self!

xo
Dee

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Registered: 08-27-2008
In reply to: dm2006
Fri, 01-29-2010 - 8:15pm

Dee,


It just feels as if the door is shut there he is looking through the peep hole every 6 weeks or so. Its so frustrating!!


Im looking fwd to moving...my number will be changed my address will be changed...brand new begining. That too feels like its never going to happen.


Youre right I do know the answer to reponding to XAP;no good from that. Part of me feels like I should stand up for myself and take control of the sitution to ensure he doesnt contact me again. Logic tells me, if I were to contact him nothing I could say or do would make him stop, thats his choice..I can make it harder for him to do so but I cant control his actions.


I think I wish him well but Im not sure if thats how I truely feel. What I do know is that I want the best for me and he isnt it.


Thanks for your support and quick reponse while I