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| Mon, 06-06-2011 - 6:05pm |
Trying to keep all of the EAS chickens straight can be difficult!
| Mon, 06-06-2011 - 6:05pm |
Trying to keep all of the EAS chickens straight can be difficult!
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Me::: I am in my 30's, single, life is full with great family and friends.
I am late 30's MW. Three children 16, 14 and 8. Had a six month A with MM, which was ea for the first 5 months and went pa when I seperated from my H. Have had a D-day and my H is wanting us to reconcile and we are working towards that (I am having to learn not to live by my emotions as I have been led by them my whole life). So I have made the choice to recommit to my M as my H is a wonderful man and has changed so much over these past two months and I owe it to him and my children to give our M my best shot. I have now been NC 20 days and am finding this has been a tough week but am moving through it.
I'm Kat from Australia. I've been M to a great guy for a decade and we have 3 beautiful kids. All my life I've struggled with poor self-worth and poor boundaries. I was in an A for six years with a high-profile MM who lives in another city. He told me that his wife was cold, overweight, and that they never had sex. I met her once and she was warm, sensual, funny, and beautiful.
I tried to end the A more times than I can count and always got sucked back in by his "we'll always be friends" line.
I had several incremental D-days which hurt my H more than anyone in this world deserves to be hurt, yet I still carried on with the A. The final impetus for ending it came when xAP was on holiday with another family and my two young daughters (long story). When I sent a text to ask how my girls were doing he refused to answer me because he had "a rule against contact outside of work hours". So much for the 'friendship" he was always going on about. I may not have cared about myself enough to end the A, but I care about my kids more than anything in the world and when I saw that he had no more respect for them than he did for me it was over.
And that, thank god, was the day I found EAS and started to rebuild my life. This community has literally saved my life, and each and every one of you will always have my friendship and gratitude. ((Hugs)) to you all.
Kat
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