ROLL CALL

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Registered: 01-18-2010
ROLL CALL
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Sun, 10-31-2010 - 10:26pm

Iddy (and the board),

I know you did a roll call last week or so regarding who is here after the board/forum changes, can we have your standard roll call?

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Mon, 11-01-2010 - 2:34pm
Hi luvin,

I am divorced and was married for 18 years. I have two kids and live in B.C. Canada. I was involved with xap for 5 messy years and I am 25 days no contact. I am single and grateful for choosing to be on my own to better help me get healthy :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-25-2010
Mon, 11-01-2010 - 3:18pm

Lets see here...

I'm S, xAP is MM. A lasted just under a year, LD. He ended it once, fished - back to the A hellfire, I ended a second time, more fishing...finally ended it a third time 'for good', did all the block-and-walk necessary and have been out and NC for almost three months (I'll be gettin' my wings in 12 days! Woot!).

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'It may be that when we no longer know what to do,
We have come to our real work,
And that when we no longer know which way to go,
We have begun our real journey'
- Wendell Berry

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2007
Mon, 11-01-2010 - 4:51pm
Married 16 years, 2 kids 13&11, A lasted 4 years w/ mm. Had a Dday after one year and picked it back up after a month and went another 3 very careful years. I ended it 8 weeks ago because it just wasn't working anymore. He totally took me for granted and was just consumed by everything but me. We had never planned to leave our M's. But his M started falling apart. Wanted me to wait but I was just so so tired of the drama and the mood swings. I ended it for him and for me. But I miss him still. :(
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2009
Mon, 11-01-2010 - 6:34pm

Hello everyone, I'm back! Been away from the board for a couple of months but not for the wrong reasons, just because I've been so darned busy I've had no time, not even for lurking. Took the "keep yourself busy" advice seriously - lol. Thursday I will be 6 months out!!! The longest I've ever gone. Not much of one to boast but I'm so proud of myself. Will try to make time to be more present here to pay it forward, I owe this board that. It saved me.

I am in Canada (greetings to my fellow Canucks)

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Registered: 06-08-2010
Mon, 11-01-2010 - 9:54pm
Heartsofsix's stats: •M for 17 years as of July to my highschool sweetheart •4 wonderful children •Fell into the A pit approximately 2 yrs ago...started EA and then went PA...on for 4 months, off for 5, then on HARDCORE for 8 months •NC since Sept. 17th (45 days!) with a few minor glitches in the whole LC thing :( •Live in the heart of the Midwest...corn and pig country •Very close to finishing my masters degree!!! :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-26-2006
Mon, 11-01-2010 - 10:40pm

Hi - I am 40 and was in an affair for about 6 years.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2010
Tue, 11-02-2010 - 4:27pm

Ok, let's do this.

I'm a MW for 10 years, have 2 kids (7 and 5).

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