ROLL CALL for all Newbies and Lurkers (under 3 mo. of NC)

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Registered: 11-22-2009
ROLL CALL for all Newbies and Lurkers (under 3 mo. of NC)
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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 1:57pm

We have had a lot of new faces around here lately. I would like to have all of you newbies chime in on this thread (under 3 months of NC), and tell me the date you wnet NC, a little bit about yourself as to whether you are S, Sep., or M, and anything else you'd like to share with us. This goes for any lurkers who would like to be acknowledged too, but haven't as yet mustered up the nerve to post. Now is your chance. :smileywink:

If I can get all of you in one spot, then I will be better prepared for presenting our Tweener Wings in a timely fashion. A Tweener is someone who has completed 3 months of NC and is then headed for SuperTweener status at 6 months NC. Sound confusing? Naw...it's just a fun way to pat you on the back for a job well done, not to mention the HIGH FIVES and (((Hugs))) that you'll get too.

TIA,

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha

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Registered: 10-17-2010

Hi Iddy,

I broke it off with ex-ap October 2nd.

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Registered: 03-08-2009
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2010

Hi...thanks for clarifying what a "tweener" was!

A ended June 26.

NC since October 5 BUT does calling to hear his voice and then hanging up count as contact?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Well, if you honestly admit that you called ONLY to hear his voice and not hoping he would have answered, then we can go with 10/5 as your NC debut. What say you? ;)
Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 08-30-2010
I called and hung up. Actually talking to him or running into him scares the crap out of me.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2010

Hi (((((Iddy)))))!!!!

I'm still

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Hi iddy,

I have been nc since October 8th 2010. I'm a single divorced Mom of two kids, 20 and 16. I have no plans to change my single status, I have never participated in a healthy way in a relationship and I'm going to work on having a heathy relationship with myself first. If love doesn't come my way that's ok because I'm going to be happy within myself!
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Registered: 05-15-2010

Hi Everyone,

I found EAS last May but my A continued.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2010

Hi Iddy

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2010

Hi Everybody!!

Im Michelle and I was an affairaholic. Or an Xapaholic. But Im in RECOVERY now!

I am S - He was M. Affair lasted 3 years. We had a DDay in June 2010 - but continued to see eachother. We both got into individual counseling - he told me he wanted a life with me but didnt want to hurt his kids while his mother is dying of a terminal illness. I told him I couldnt live indefinitely

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010

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