ROLL CALL for all Newbies and Lurkers (under 3 mo. of NC)

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Registered: 11-22-2009
ROLL CALL for all Newbies and Lurkers (under 3 mo. of NC)
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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 1:57pm

We have had a lot of new faces around here lately. I would like to have all of you newbies chime in on this thread (under 3 months of NC), and tell me the date you wnet NC, a little bit about yourself as to whether you are S, Sep., or M, and anything else you'd like to share with us. This goes for any lurkers who would like to be acknowledged too, but haven't as yet mustered up the nerve to post. Now is your chance. :smileywink:

If I can get all of you in one spot, then I will be better prepared for presenting our Tweener Wings in a timely fashion. A Tweener is someone who has completed 3 months of NC and is then headed for SuperTweener status at 6 months NC. Sound confusing? Naw...it's just a fun way to pat you on the back for a job well done, not to mention the HIGH FIVES and (((Hugs))) that you'll get too.

TIA,

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 11-15-2010

Hi, Iddy!!

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Registered: 04-01-2010

I'm a 48 yo MW involved with MM for 13 months. We were

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Registered: 11-22-2009

(((Newbies))

Thank you so much for posting in on this thread. If memory serves me correctly, we will have a Tweener on the 26th of this month. Yay for Gal_freedom....you are almost there! It also looks like we have several gals that will be January Tweeners, and what a wonderful way to start off the NY. Us Tweeners, SuperTweeners, and Vets will be waiting for you at the Tweener gates. Those of you fresh into NC will be our February gals. If you think about it, that's really not that far away. :smileywink:

I hope and pray for all of you that you 2011 is going to be your best year ever. Remember that the power is within you to make it happen.

Love and hugs,

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 01-30-2006

Hi Iddy,

I actually found EAS prior to breaking things off w/xAP.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-20-2009

Hi All

I have been lurking and posting( infrequently) since July 2009. I am

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2010

My affair was actually more than 15 years ago.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2010

Hello,

A little about myself hmmm.......I am a single mom to four boys, I have been divorced for 5 years.

I started seeing xAP about a year and a half ago, met him through a mutual aquaintance.

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Registered: 04-01-2010
Better, what an incredible story! I only wish I had EAS and/or better coping skills in place when I ran into xAP again after so many years. I wasn't prepared or able to say no and fell right back into it with him. I think you certainly belong here!!
Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2010

I'm a MW, who was in A with a S guy for about a year.

NC since Oct 25.

Community Leader
Registered: 06-08-2010
Hi everyone! Sorry I am late...been busy with REAL LIFE! ;) I am a MW (for 17 years and have 4 kiddos) and had A for about 18 months, off and on...xAP is S. We work together (unfortunately) so I have had to learn the ways of LC and I have been officially NC since Sept. 17th. On happy news, I am going to be leaving that job in just 43 short days!!! I don't ever run into xAP anywhere else (there is always that slight chance since we live 20 minutes from each other) but I am SO eager to walk away from that workplace!!!!!! I'll be riding my leased horse soon (yay!!!) and I am also working on finishing a masters degree in (would you believe it??!) COUNSELING. Yep. Graduation hopefully will be Dec. 2011. Yay! Hearts <3