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| Tue, 12-08-2009 - 9:27am |
To All: (Newbies, tweeners, vets, and lurkers)
I remember that Messenger used to do this every so often
| Tue, 12-08-2009 - 9:27am |
To All: (Newbies, tweeners, vets, and lurkers)
I remember that Messenger used to do this every so often
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Congrats Iddy on being our new CL!!
Wow looks like im kinda late on checkn in...but better late than never.
Ive been with H for 15 years......in those years there has been a few A's, one that cut deep. Which was the last one.The last A
(((DM)))
Thanks for posting in on this thread and I appreciate the kudos. Ironically, I just changed my siggy and it no longer says, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time ~ Angelou Maya," but I am sure you have those words etched in your memory forever, right? ;-)
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::Smile:: That just about covers the purpose of this board.
~Iddy~
Hi all,
I lurk quite a bit and post when I feel like I have input to help someone or need some help myself. I was in an affair with my manager for around a year. It is difficult to define when it truly started and ended.
I'm doing much better than I was. It is clear to me what I need to do (maintain NC) and I concentrate on that every day. This site has been a huge help to me. I tried for so long with LC and that just wasn't working. It didn't really occur to me until coming here that it had to be NC for me and I needed to quit my job. I think it would have taken me much longer to figure that out on my own. I really loved my job and absolutely didn't want to leave.
I stay at home with my children and feel very blessed that my husband has been so supportive of that and of me after finding out about my affair. I enjoy staying home for the most part and have gotten into the swing of it now. Although I do still have my days. Like yesterday I looked at jobs online after three snow days off of school. :-)
I am so thankful for all of the ladies here. I'm very thankful for the vets who continue to come here and offer their words of wisdom and encouragement and so much of their time even though they have gotten past all of this madness. It would be so easy to move on and forget about this site, but they choose to come here to help other people who have gotten themselves in similar situations.
I'm also thankful for everyone else who is here trying to learn and struggling to find their way. It helps so much to feel like you are not alone out there.
I'm not where I should be or need to be, but I'm getting there and every week it does get better and things are more clear to me. All thanks to this site!
Hi,
I am new here.
Congrats Iddy!!! (From one of the oldest members I see around here... lol) Just got curious and decided to lurk for a few minutes till I saw you moved up to Cl. Way to go girl!!! I see TTS still drops in too. Any other REALLY golden oldies around?? Let's see, I started here back... in what??... 2002?? I was going by the pseudonym of "Natural Spirit" after ending an extremely intense long distance EA with a friend I made while working in a volunteer group.
This is definitely a great healing place for all those still struggling...
Tiger (not to be confused with the golfer) ;)
a.k.a: Nat
Hi...I'm a newbie. Found this site after Googling Ending Affair Support a few days ago.
After reading all your stories, I decided to tell mine as well.
Congratulations Iddy on being CL!!
(((Yogachick)))
It was so nice of you to stop by and say "Hi" and update us. TTS still pops by every now and then, and I always look fwd to hearing from her. I took a much needed hiatus last year and then returned when Xmm faltered after 5 years of A sobriety. With the strength I had obtained over those years I was able to put him back in his cage and only suffered a tiny scratch, one that is hardly noticeable. I did return to the board though, as any ex-addict should do, in making sure there was no chance of a relapse. All is back to normal again and I even got a new yellow hat for my efforts. ;-) Thanks so much for your kind words.
I'm so happy to hear that you are in a good place now, and have found someone special to share your life with. It's always so good to hear when a previous ender made it through the storm and their life is now sunny side up. Congratulations to you too. ;-)
Many ((hugs)),
~Iddy~
Hi everyone,
I recently started posting here, not often. I've been M for almost 6 years but been seperated for about 4 months. H and I are very good friends. I was in A for a little over a year. I am madly in love with AP but broke things off about two weeks ago. I found a message to him from another woman who he had apparently been with in the past. I confronted him and he twisted up the story and told me the lamest lie ever. He tried to turn things around
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