Roll Call for NEWBIES only

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Roll Call for NEWBIES only
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Mon, 01-31-2011 - 11:48am

Welcome to EAS. I've been planning to start this thread all weekend but wanted to wait until the workweek started.

Please chime in IF you are under (3 months) of committed NC and tell us a little about yourself. I've received several emails where long term posters would like all of you gathered under one thread. It helps those of us who have been around a while to keep track of you all. :smileywink:

NOTE: This is not a thread for our regulars.

TIA,

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Mon, 01-31-2011 - 1:36pm

Just wanted to bump this back up so it wouldn’t get lost in the sea of posts.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2011
Mon, 01-31-2011 - 2:00pm

Ok

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Mon, 01-31-2011 - 2:07pm

Hi A,

NC means no contact and LC means limited contact. Your A has been over for a while, but since you are new to the board, you can chime in here and introduce yourself if you'd like.

((Hugs))

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2010
Mon, 01-31-2011 - 2:13pm

I posted this on another thread and thought I would just copy and paste!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2011
Mon, 01-31-2011 - 7:33pm

omg, I needed this board so badly... AP went back to his on/off girlfriend this weekend.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
Mon, 01-31-2011 - 10:07pm

Hello Everyone,

NC since Nov 12, 2010

Married ..LD

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011
Mon, 01-31-2011 - 10:42pm

Hi Iddy - Thanks for the roll call. I am present and accountable.

NC date: Monday 24 January 2011 (8 days!!)

Married or Single? Married. Met my H when we were 16, married for 12 years, 3 beautiful children.

Most vulnerable time for breaking NC: Fortnightly work trips

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2011
Mon, 01-31-2011 - 10:55pm
NC date: went NC from November 2009 to August 2010 and now for 2 weeks.
MW, 12 years, small children. He: MM, 16 years, older kids. EMA not PA, we just cannot seem to stop contacting each other.
Lurked here for several months trying to figure out what this was, how I got in it and how to let it go.
I have justified this outside relationship and fantasy by telling myself it was ok because it was not physical and we had done nothing wrong to the outside world.

I don't want to think about him anymore, or be compelled to respond when he decides he wants something from me.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-01-2010
Mon, 01-31-2011 - 11:32pm

I haven't posted in a while because life is crazy but I'm still here reading, lurking, reading the HL....NC is now about 5 weeks and going pretty well. Today was the firs time in a long time I have thought about him and had a slight pang when hearing a song but otherwise doing pretty well.

Background: I'm S, he's M. We've known each other for a very very long time (since we were teens) but this past year or so we hung out a lot as pseudo dates because his W was physically gone for a couple of years. I fell for him hard and I know he enjoyed my company and my attention. When she returned, I immediately stopped seeing him and told him I would not text or call. He tried to contact but I blocked him and took his number out of my phone. That is the only way I could make the NC work and get on with my life.

Love, Sunshine Dedicated to living my new life with integrity, truth and positive thoughts! I am worthy of true love and definitely worth the wait!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-19-2010
Fri, 02-04-2011 - 1:33am
A little bumpidy bump!

COME ON NOW NEWBIES! This place has been crawling with new stories of ending for the last few weeks and we got 6 responses? Come on... when our fearless leader throws out an official Yellow-capped role call yall BETTER ANSWER! Im serious here! We want to know how you are doing?

Devious D...? Show me how wrong I was with my harsh words...

Sunshine...? You ended it right?

Waking up...? You were running strong...if you have fallen let us help you up!

Decade lost...? Your confessions were beautiful, and I know your pain...to well. How you doing? How long NC?

Konline...Dixie...? Bring it!!!

Amxdem....? You are official NC now...its a respect thing...answer the call!

Come on yall,its a time for healing....and its happening right now! Spring is coming...join in the rebirth of the earth and give yourself the gift of a whole new YOU!

Sending strong Ending Vibes to all you tonight...
peace&light
Foggy

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