Rules of the Road

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2003
Rules of the Road
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Wed, 08-18-2004 - 5:41pm
I'm an old poster from about a year ago. I've visited some this week out of curiosity. I really appreciated the support I used to get here. Being here now has been like listening to an old CD that I haven't heard in a while (if that makes sense).

Y'all hang in there. You'll make it IF YOU TRY... That's the key. Y'all have to work on it and try. Don't let life just happen around you.

Rules of the Road:

#1- No contact

#2- See number one. Now, don't just think about it... do it!

#3- See number two.

#4- Look inside yourself for your reasons to have been in an affair. Without blaming your partner (if you're a married person)... what is it about YOU that led you here? If you're the "OW or OM" w/ a married person, what is it about YOU that led you here (to being in an affair)? Focus on yourself.

#5- Focus on yourself, not your lover, ex-lover, OM, OW.

#6- Live in reality, not fantasy.

#7- (did I already say no contact?)

#8- Get help.

Good luck!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Wed, 08-18-2004 - 8:03pm
RG

What you say is so true, but the truth about are selves and what motivates us can be very hard to face.

Free

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 08-18-2004 - 11:28pm

RG, I am pleased to see you are doing so well! It's good to see you. It does the current members good to see