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A sad ending.
| Wed, 10-21-2009 - 9:37am |
I've read some posts here and there, and I never thought I would come to the place that I am at.
| Wed, 10-21-2009 - 9:37am |
I've read some posts here and there, and I never thought I would come to the place that I am at.
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"I wish I knew what is in his head."
MoonUnit
MoonUnit
Sorry, I misunderstood "home"!!
This is just my opinion, but why not come clean to your husband about the baby?
MoonUnit
MoonUnit
If you aren't exactly sure what YOU want to do about the baby and YOU decide to terminate the pregnancy YOU might regret that decision every day for the rest of your life. Please think very, very hard and try to picture the rest of your life; not just today, with this decision.
I'm not going to tell you what to do because I am not in your situation and I definitely cannot judge you, but please, please think past today. It is YOUR decision alone. Think about how you might feel about the baby 5,10,15,20 + years from now. Terminating a pregnancy is something you cannot ever change and your decision will likely affect you deeply the rest of your life.
I really feel for you this is a very difficult situation to be in.
MoonUnit
MoonUnit
MoonUnit
MoonUnit
"I want my life back before I made this terrible mistake. People have gotten hurt. There will be scars from this for ever."
I completely agree with onemoretime. Your husband had at least 4 affairs?! How do you know that the same thing hasn't happened to him? He is in no place to be upset with you. Please do as onemoretime suggested and think of yourself and your baby right now. Do you have any other children? Please find someone you can talk to also as onemoretime mentioned to help you sort through everything. Can you make an appointment for a therapist first before the termination appointment?
I'm not sure the best thing to say to you I just want to make sure that whatever you decide is your decision. I know it is very hard to worry about what people think, because I do that too, but please try to think past what others think and decide for yourself what you should do. You are really the only one who will truly have to live with your decision.
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