Saw him AGAIN!!

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Registered: 07-20-2004
Saw him AGAIN!!
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Sat, 01-15-2005 - 5:35pm

This is crazy. When we were in the A I would purposely try to "find" him on the road whenever I was out and about. (He drives for work around town and I know his route pretty well), BUT I could never seem to be in the right place at the right time to catch him. Now, the A is over, I've had NC with him for over a week and I'm seeing him all over the place. Just now I was on my way home from the grocery store and thought I saw his W's car. I had to stop at the light right next to her, but when I glanced over I saw it (thankfully) wasn't her. But just as I turned my head to look the other way, there they were. Passing right in front of me. Him, her, and their family. I'm sick to my stomach, which really sucks because I'm feeling better and better everyday with NC!

AND, I think you would all be proud of me. I'm normally good at keeping my end of NC, but I'm bad when he contacts me. I always give in. Well yesterday there was a VM from him and it said " I have a bone to pick with you, and I'll always love you, B. "

Well I just ignored it. Never got back to him. This makes twice now. I'm doing good. I am, however, very curious about this bone he has with me. Can't begin to imagine waht he wants to tell me. But he never tried calling back, and I still wouldn't have answered. I think I'm doing better. Now if I could only get over this nautious feeling. When does that yucky feeling of seeing him go away?

PAL

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Registered: 07-20-2004
In reply to: pal1214
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 5:40pm

I forgot to add:

I know some of you will say that I should change my cell # and e-mail etc.. so he can't contact me, BUT I have to admit, I'm kind of getting a huge amount of satisfaction knowing that he's trying to reach me to no avail. I know he thinks I'm gonna cave and I'm just not gonna do it this time. I'm sure he'll give up eventually, but for the meantime, I'm enjoying this, it makes me feel POWERFUL!!! (my turn to play the games now :)) And I like knowing that he is thinking of me, while he chews on the fact that just maybe I could care less about him. No need to change anything for now.!!!




Edited 1/15/2005 5:45 pm ET ET by pal1214
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Registered: 12-28-2003
In reply to: pal1214
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 9:15pm

Pal

I expect the bone to pick is just a reason to contact you and little else, it does provide you with the opportunity to flip him that bird we were talking about eh.

Be careful with the games you would not want them to backfire on you.

Free

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Registered: 07-20-2004
In reply to: pal1214
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 9:46pm

Free,

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I'm not a very good game player so this will probably be the extent of my "games". Though, my sister and I just got home from taking our kids to a play and all I could think was how much I'm looking forward to Monday, just so I can ignore him some more if he tries to contact me. I just want him to know that I am stronger than he thinks I am and I'm not "doing it anymore." Of course, if he doesn't try to contact me I'll probably be disappointed and wonder why. But for now I'm having a good weekend. Don't rain on my parade. (Just kidding)!!

Pal

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Registered: 12-28-2003
In reply to: pal1214
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 10:36pm

Pal

It's true HELL HAS NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SPURNED, He will be lucky if you don't run him over with a float from that parade.

Have fun.

Free