Seeing him tomorow - alone

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Registered: 04-15-2010
Seeing him tomorow - alone
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Tue, 04-20-2010 - 3:03pm

Hello All,

As you may recall I am in a LC situation with my xAP.

Long story short - 2 year A, I ended it after a planned Dday he had with his W to leave her for our 'relationship' 6/7 weeks ago. Apartment shopping, then changed his mind.

He continues to push a 'relationship' (as he says to have the left over pieces that won't threaten anyone = emotional affair - no sex) - i have said numerous times NO. Now, we will see one another tomorrow - and we will have to spend time alone together. It is a complicated story - but we are co-investigators (researchers) on a project together - and this requires us to sometimes have planning sessions together. Now - it has only been 7 days NC (tomorrow) - and I am feeling scared.

So - please send me your virtual support and words of wisdom!

I want to make myself - and you all proud tomorrow!

Cheers,

TU.

LC/NC since April 14, 2010

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Thu, 04-22-2010 - 9:45am

E1-
Little hijack here, but this tread has gone on anyway...

I hung my shooting targets - you know, the silhouette of a torso with bullet holes in it? - in my laundry room when i was single. The back door in the laundry room had a window, so anyone thinking about entering through it knew I was a good shot... a _very_ good shot. HA!

And when my washer broke down?? oh, man. you've never seen such a nervous repair guy in your whole life!

If you don't want to break the 8th, consider getting a pump action shot gun. Just hearing that chunk-chunk sound will make _anyone_ hightail it out of your house. ;)

Okie dokie, Pistol Packin' Mamma! Have a good day!
xo
Dee

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