Serious trouble!!! Need feedback ASAP!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-06-2004
Serious trouble!!! Need feedback ASAP!
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Sun, 10-24-2004 - 3:28pm
I decided to take a pregnancy test today, because my period is 1 week late. Although I didn't think I was pregnant since my period is ALWAYS late, but for some reason I decided to take a pregnancy test today and......I am pregnant! Now what? I have terminated 1 pregnancy before because we weren't in the financial situation to keep the baby. However, this time I don't know if my husband would want me to terminate the pregnancy. The only thing though, it's definitely NOT his baby!!!!!! Even if I were to keep it, I couldn't. My husband is white, MM is black.

Now I am in serious trouble!!!!! I think this is my wake up call. To all the ladies going through an A, please stop now!!!!!!!!!!! This can definitely destroy everything. How could I let myself get into this??????? Not using protection!!!! This is how big of an effect these OM's have in our lives that we just stop thinking straight!?

One question to you all! Should I tell MM that I am pregnant? I want to, because let him feel the pain I am going through in my heart. I doubt he will even offer to help me in any way.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Mon, 10-25-2004 - 4:35pm
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Hon I am sorry if my questions offended you , that was not the reason I asked them, I am a firm believer in finding the reasons behind our action as a means of controling them in the future.

These things may seem like a game at times but the cost a whole lot more then 2 bits to play.

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