sex-less

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Registered: 04-20-2009
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Mon, 10-18-2010 - 9:30am

My subconscious has not caught up with my conscious and the result is that I woke up this morning from a very graphic dream starring the wrong actor.

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Registered: 04-16-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 10-18-2010 - 10:37pm

Thanks 'Luvin ---- we've been to counseling, we've discussed both of our pasts (nothing traumatic)......I've run out of ideas and out of patience.

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Registered: 10-17-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 10-18-2010 - 10:57pm
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Registered: 04-11-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Tue, 10-19-2010 - 8:27am

OMG you girls are singing my song!

I adore my H and love our life together. Im working hard towards it. But sex? Almost non existent. We just very mismatched libidos, plus I have gone off kissing him.

I dont know what the answer is here Dee- it makes the exAP harder to not think about. I have mastered the art of looking after matters myself when needed :) but gosh I miss the intimacy.

I dont know-I like all the responses so far though :)

You are what you consistently do
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Registered: 01-18-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Tue, 10-19-2010 - 8:37am

Man oh man, that is tough and I can totally relate in so many ways.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 04-20-2009
In reply to: deeulta
Tue, 10-19-2010 - 9:04am

Thank you, Everyone, for your thoughtful and open responses.

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Registered: 04-16-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Tue, 10-19-2010 - 9:56am
Luvin': Thanks SO much for your support and your offer of help - its very kind. I'll stay in touch

Dee: You have such wisdom about how to deal with this situation - I can only hope it changes for you and your H. One thing though: I'll skip putting the big-girl panties on, if that's ok.... :)
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Registered: 10-17-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Tue, 10-19-2010 - 10:35am
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Registered: 10-20-2009
In reply to: deeulta
Tue, 10-19-2010 - 11:41am

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