She got the cell phone bill

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Registered: 07-20-2004
She got the cell phone bill
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Wed, 11-24-2004 - 9:55pm
Hi Guys,
I haven't posted in a while because, well not much has been going on. xMM and I have still stayed in contact without the physical contact, and trying to do the whole friends thing, which wasn't working very well. (too much emotion. ) Well I posted a while ago that I thought he was trying to get caught, talking to me for hours a day on his cell phone when he knows she's very anal about the bill and would definately find out about it. Well, he called me at work and told me she got the bill, and she planned on calling me and giving me a piece of her mind. (She is/was my friend.)Well she did. I guess stuff is going down at home tonight. She now knows about me, though she doesn't know the full extent. Of course she feel very betrayed, by me, her friend, and her H. He told her on today that he wants out of the marriage. He does not want to work things out. She told me he said this also. She now blames me for every problem they have in their marriage, and I just let her blame all she wanted, since I didn't think I was in a position to be defending myself. I told her that our feelings for eachother started out as innocent and friendly and just grew from there.That I never intended to betray her friendship, but after he and I became so close I felt my priority was with him at that point. The last time I talked to him he said "i'm doing this tonight,I love you and we're gonna be together." Well he has said that 2 other times and has chickened out both times, so I'm not counting on anything tonight either. (however, she never knew about ME those other times.)Oh, she called his mom, who then called him to tell him that the grass isn't always greener on the other side. He told her grass wasn't the problem. The marriage is. I don't know how this is gonna pan out tonight. I kow we actually already ended the A, but this puts a new twist on things. I'll take him back once or if he's available. Now a couple questions. She also e-mailed me this afternoon before I talked to her. It pretty much says have a nice life! It also says that all contact between me and her H will be stopping. (she told him that and he said no it won't). But am I supposed to e-mail her back? What would I say? or do I just let it go? Also, He got home from work around 7 pm. Its now almost 10 and I haven't heard a word. What does that mean and is it good or bad?

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Registered: 03-30-2003
Thu, 11-25-2004 - 9:29pm

Ditto, my dear Pal.

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