Sherry and Crystal

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Sherry and Crystal
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Wed, 03-26-2003 - 9:31am
Hey you two! Where are you ladies today????? I have been concerned about both of you so please check in and let me know how you're doing.

Hugs to you both!

GT

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Wed, 03-26-2003 - 1:26pm
Hi GT.... I'm here and trying to figure out how to work this new board! I'm okay, just wish I could find those posts from yesterday. My spiritual confusion one in particular. I want to get the email addresses from several of the reply posts.

I tried NRE's suggestion of looking in archives this morning...but they weren't there... I'll try again, perhaps they've shown up!

How do you like this new format? Personally, I prefer the old one!

Thanks for asking about me...you're very kind :)

Love ya!

Sherry

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Wed, 03-26-2003 - 2:52pm
I'm not thrilled with this new format either and was not at all happy that it would be started without having all the archives. Oh well, it's like anything else. Change is so tough! Right? :) But we do get used to it!

I wanted you to know that I spoke to my best friend yesterday about the Catholic church and divorce. Also, our friend Callistus reached out to help. What I found is that you will be able to worship in every way even if you are divorced. I have to say I was really concerned about your feelings yesterday. You cannot continue to condemn yourself for what has happened in your life. The only real way to handle it is to try to improve it so that you can be happy and fulfilled.

I know that a lot of my posts are particularly rough to the MW here but to you, I want to say that with all I know about your situation, I do not blame you at all for what's happened and I also don't think you should beat yourself up spiritually either. What you want to come away with is a new found life for yourself and some spiritual growth along the way. I know sometimes when we are in our darkest hour, it is difficult to believe the answers will come, but take my word for it, they do! I just know the worst thing you can do is become stagnant and I have suspected that about you in your marriage for quite some time now. Just want ya to know I'm here for you!

Hugs,

GT