Should I be mean?
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| Sat, 12-04-2004 - 11:26am |
(I've got this posted on the A board, too. I just wanted some perspective from ppl on this board too.)
If anyone knows my story, my MM and I work together and recently got suspected of "fraternization". He's a manager- I'm not. He's been under an investigation for the last 3 weeks. They interviewed him (he denied everything of course) and ppl we work with. Our A has SERIOUSLY slowed down since then. The last 3 weeks have sucked, us seeing each other only twice. I just got called to come in to talk to the big boss tonight. I know they are going to interview me. I am supposed to deny everything too in order for us to keep our jobs.
You know what?? I'm feeling a little vengeful right now. There's this part of me that wants to go in and just spill all and get us both fired. It would really rock his world, losing his job and having to make up something to his W. Plus, it would take away his big excuse not to see me. I know he would be SOOO MAD at me if I did that, though. Probably mad enough to hate me and never want to see me again.
But right at the moment, it seems like that's where the A is heading anyway. So as long as my M and my life is so crappy, why shouldn't his be?
Thoughts?
Breathe

Breathe -
Wow - that's intense. Think you've got some pent up anger towards MM ;-)??
I think at this point, you need to think about YOU and what YOU want and where YOU want things to go. Revenge is sweet, but in the end you may regret the REASON you made the decision - not neccessarily the decision itself.
Really think about what this will do TO YOU. Base your decision on YOU not HIM.
JMHO
Diva
dont do anything crazy. You both lose your jobs then you are out of a job just like he is. What good would that do? Then on top of having to get over the A you are going to be in a job search just before the holiday season (slowest job turnover time of the year).
How do you think the boss found out that something was going on?
good luck
Jazzdiva