Should I bother???
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Should I bother???
| Mon, 10-11-2004 - 8:30am |
I just received a short, one sentence birthday greeting from a former MM. So far, he's honored NC for the last four months. (The A itself only lasted about 4 months) The poor soul has been in a loveless marriage (of course) for the last 18 years and can't leave b/c of the kids (naturally), but he told me repeatedly that he really, really loves me.(Really)
Do I simply reply "thanks" and leave it at that? I was wondering about him just the other day, a little more than usual, probably b/c I had a feeling he'd contact me today. Would it open a can of worms if I acknowledged receipt of his e-mail? I would like to know how he's doing. Or is that a no-no? I feel I've moved on from him and the emotional attachment that was forming has subsided.
Well, not gonna spend too much time agonizing over this; just wanted some other opinions.

Looking forward to making it 4 months with NC myself...
Frisco
NO CONTACT, your emotions can come back on you very very quickly with out warning.
Free
Just keep your NC. It really is the best thing!
Happy Birthday to YOU!!
Hugs
MB