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Should I call.......
| Mon, 03-22-2004 - 10:02am |
It's been 21 days of NC. XMM called me Friday night and left me a voice message inviting me to a birthday party. I didn't answer the phone when he called me again on Saturday afternoon to invite me to this party. I had no interest in going to the party or communicating with him. Should I give him an explanation for not coming to the party? Or, should I just let it die? I kinda feel obligated to tell him why I didn't come, I don't know why I feel obligated. More out of common courtesy I think.......

AND!!!! if I did hurt his feeling (which I doubt that I did) how many times has he hurt mine, telling me lie after lie. Maybe, just maybe he knows how it feels to be stood up with no word why.
No Explanations are required!
Women are conditioned from birth to be kind, curtious, polite, accomodating, considerate, thoughtful and forgiving (too name a few).
You are doing the right thing, don't let guilt get in your way. Perhaps if women played a little tougher we would be in more powerful postions today.
I am currently giving my MM the cold shoulder because I am sick of his judgmental attitude. He called & left a message on my cell phone on Friday (something he has only done once before in the past 6 months). I have not returned his call nor do I plan to and it feels great. I feel powerful! I refuse to take anymore crap from him. If I want a boatload of crap I can get that at home.
HFL
NO LET IT DIE, or your going to end up back at square one.