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| Tue, 10-19-2004 - 8:06am |
I have a problem. Some friends of mine who have been away for a couple of months are coming home today and want to meet up for drinks tonight with me. I can't wait to see themand have really missed them. The problem is I'm presuming they will be inviting XOM as they are close friends with him also. I'm just not sure that I should go at all.
I'm trying to distance myself from him for the time being and don't want to put myself in a potentially risky situation in which he may try to be alone with me or persuade me to talk about what has happened between us.
I really dont think that he would as he has respected my decision in ending things and has given no indication that he is upset or wants more from me. It's just doesn't seem the RIGHT thing to do.
So guys, should I stay home and see my friends another day or go knowing that he will be there?
If I dont go my friends may wonder why or be upset. If I do go isn't that putting myself in the line of fire?
Just want to do the right thing...HELP!
m x.

If you go can you take hubby along if not can you have the drink at your house if none of these works you would be better off not going, but if you go restrict your drinking to the minimum one polite drink and no more.
But you are right to keep your distance after a few drinks XOM may change his mind.
JMHO
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