Should i go on a date?

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Registered: 11-15-2009
Should i go on a date?
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Wed, 12-16-2009 - 1:04pm
Hey girls..honestly..it need some advice because i have been known to make unhealthy descisions in my past..lol..but my question is this...how unhealthy is it to go out on a date at this point? I know that i am still greiving and am aware enough of my emotions to know that i will not get attatched too quickly to anyone right now so is there any harm in going to a casual dinner with a nice SINGLE available man? i feel like it would help me to realize that there are more fish in the sea and to have some company during the holidays when i feel so alone....He knows i just got out of a relationship and just wants to hang out and be friends if thats what i want (which i do) but i just need to know if this will only complicate my situation..or maybe
"Women can fake orgasms but men can fake entire relationships" -Sharon Stone
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Registered: 12-07-2009
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 6:02pm

Sinking,


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   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 11-22-2009
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 6:39pm

YES go on a date!

I am single, and a few months ago, during my affair, I dated this really nice, wonderful man...totally PURRRFECT and available. He made me forget about AP and really showed me there are good men out there. Problem is he dumped me. lol

But the point of the story is... don't pass up on an opportunity to meet Mr. Wonderful. He may appear in the most unlikely place and time. What do you have to lose by going on a date? Nothing.

NC since Dec. 9th 2009

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Registered: 08-28-2004
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 7:39pm

Yeah, I would definitely go. I of course would tell him that you just got out a R and just want to hang. But other than that, I say go for it. That's what I would and will do if the opportunity presents itself.


We deserve to see that we have options, we deserve to have fun and start moving ahead with our lives. So, why not start now? Just have fun, dont analyze the situation. Enjoy yourself.

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Registered: 11-22-2009
Thu, 12-17-2009 - 1:56am
Ah I'd be careful telling the guy that you just got out of a R. Because some guys pry on women that are vulnerable (aka post breakup) and you don't want him to think your vulnerable.

NC since Dec. 9th 2009

No Contact = No N