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Should I Tell
| Sun, 02-22-2004 - 7:52pm |
I know a man that is cheating on the women he is seeing. You see, he is cheating with me. We have had a on/off relationship now for 3 years. I know I need to get him out of my life, Believe me I have been trying. The problem is that I care for this person. And I know you are wondering how I can care for someone like that. Those of you that have been there know what I am talking about. I am closer now then ever to walking away because I realize this man will never be faithful to another women.
I do not know this women and have no ill feelings toward her. She is a victim also. I do believe that she should know what type of person he is. I know I would want to know. On the night of his birthday, he left her house and then we went out. Wouldn't you want to know if that was happening to you.
Please help
Confused, hurt, and mad.
I do not know this women and have no ill feelings toward her. She is a victim also. I do believe that she should know what type of person he is. I know I would want to know. On the night of his birthday, he left her house and then we went out. Wouldn't you want to know if that was happening to you.
Please help
Confused, hurt, and mad.

The truth finds it own way. Even though you believe right now your intentions are honorable, I think in time you'll see how cruel and selfish this would be.
I hope, even if you believe this is the right thing to do, you'll wait. I think in time you'll see that it's not necessary or nice.
She knows something is wrong in her marriage, even if she's not sure yet what it is. The hard thing to realize for us OWs is that we probably weren't the first and probably won't be the last. Let someone else blow this woman's world apart, don't let it be you. Stop now and get away from this selfish man before he drags you down to his level.
If you are his first and only, it's in your power to remove yourself from this mess and let them figure out their own lives and marriage.
Good luck. Protect yourself and don't concern yourself with others' lives and what YOU think they need to know. It's time for you to work on you and your life.
Only Richmond can make this decision, but the first thing she should do is break up with this man. She is feeding into this triangle! She is part of the problem! She is helping him hurt his wife/SO
Jazzdiva
Best to just follow your gut insticts. Get out of a bad situation. Don't play God with someone else's life. He says he would never marry her.... if that is the case, than he should break up with her. End of story. If he can't do that, than he is lying to you, too.
Been there.
Lala