sigh... back to MAS I guess...

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Registered: 07-16-2010
sigh... back to MAS I guess...
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Fri, 01-07-2011 - 3:55pm

I messed up the 9 weeks NC, we made up Dec. 17th... I was the one who initated the NC and for 9 weeks I was incredibly miserable, as some of you know... I just was not ready for us to be done and neither was he... We discovered the NC was due to a mis-understanding - typical text taken wrong kinda thing... he was very hurt and told me I left him during a very stressful time of his life and I should have been more understanding when he had to break a "date"...

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Registered: 01-23-2010
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 3:06pm

Devious, I want to address the part in your post about how great the s*x was with your XAP. Really???? You admitted that you saw him ocassionally and only communicated with him by text. You have also admitted to having several affairs. Is it possible that you have pushed your DH so far away because of your affairs that you and him no longer know how to really please each other. I know that when we are having an A, we push our spouses away and we build walls in our M. We also demonize our spouse and M in order to justify our really bad behavior.

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 3:29pm

Hey MomGarfy and TU.....I was harsh too. WHY am I not getting credit for my TOUGH LOVE too? I am so jealous. I wanna be remembered as the bad a$$!! Come on, I remember the posts all too well. WE let her have it. TU's posts just had less TYPOS....no fair....MOMG, do you not remember? I was there too....LOL...

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 08-10-2010
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 4:26pm

Luvin, you are right, you were harsh too, but TUs post was something else.

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Registered: 07-16-2010
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 5:34pm

you are all bad a** biotches!!! ha,ha.... kidding... and I admire you ALL.... I can't wait until I can be tough with someone who does something stupid on here

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 7:48pm

AHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA FALSE ALARM?!??! EVERYONE BACK TO YOUR KEGALS??!?!/ HAHAHAHA

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 01-18-2010
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 8:10pm

MICHELLE,

Energy is one of our eldest vets on the board. She does not post all that much but I know she is always watching and reading. She always has a little fun in her posts that and some great things to say...she is encouraging and inspiring, she just uses a lot less words than the rest of us.:smileyvery-happy:

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 07-13-2010
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 9:58pm
Oh my gosh, that is hysterical with the kegals..Michelle, the sneeze added was pefect! This getting older has its downfalls for sure.
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Registered: 10-17-2010
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 10:06pm

My dear Devious,

When reading this last poat I had to check and make sure I did not have multiple personalities and write that post.

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 11:33pm

HAHAHAHHAHAHA WELL

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 10-14-2010
Tue, 01-11-2011 - 12:21am

Sure Does! ILL!!! :)

You're not as OLD as me ....but have you ever leaned or bent over for so long - that when you try to go back in position, it feels like you CAN'T bend? I do that just cleaning the house!

:)

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010

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