This site has ruined my affair

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-21-2010
This site has ruined my affair
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Sun, 08-22-2010 - 10:01am

I have been on to MAS and read posts and all i see is impending heartache for those in an affair, including me of course.


I dont want to have people empathise about how it must be hard to get a chance to meet up etc.


I now need to read and hear about how it is possible to end the A. My religious beliefs prevent me from even contemplating divorce, and that is even assuming me and the AP got together which is a big if. And if we did, the guilt would kill that relationship, i know it would. SO THERE IS NO FUTURE TO THE A.


My AP is now on holiday for a week. She will ring when she get a chance. Is it ok to end it now or is that unacceptably cruel, given she will be suffering whilst with her H and children?


Shall i wait until she is back and in the meantime keep communication to a minimum?


Rob

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-21-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 8:42am

Thanks Iddy,


Yes, i have been readign through the success stories in the library and wil continue to do so.


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