Is SIX lucky???

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Registered: 04-23-2010
Is SIX lucky???
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Wed, 12-01-2010 - 9:46pm

It should be a happy day for me. I’m not sure.

Six weeks, today, of NC. Before you bestow any accolades, let me just tell you that I am posting this to let you Newbies know of the heartache that breaking NC brings.

Just a

We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Wed, 12-01-2010 - 10:01pm

Your sharing brings up MANY good points the ONE I relate to most:

Make up your mind and commit to it.

To me its as simple as that-

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 05-15-2010
Wed, 12-01-2010 - 10:25pm

RBM

Thank you for your post.

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Registered: 10-16-2010
Wed, 12-01-2010 - 10:26pm

Rather Be Me thanks so much for posting.

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Registered: 11-15-2010
Wed, 12-01-2010 - 11:54pm

Thanks for saying it as it is, RBM.

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Registered: 01-30-2006
Thu, 12-02-2010 - 9:11am

Great post.

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Registered: 11-22-2009
Thu, 12-02-2010 - 9:36am

RBM,

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Well, ending

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 10-17-2010
Thu, 12-02-2010 - 10:21am

Newbies, I have been doing this breaking-up thing, "unsuccessfully" for over a year now. At times I am very confident that I have this whipped. Big MISTAKE!!!

Thanks RBM for a very good warning to all of us.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Thu, 12-02-2010 - 11:01am

RBM,

Congrats. on six weeks NC!

Thank you for having the courage to post your experience.

I too went about six months before responded to a fishing attempt.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 11-24-2010
Thu, 12-02-2010 - 11:38am

RBM,

I feel like I owe you an apology.

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Registered: 03-08-2009
Thu, 12-02-2010 - 12:43pm