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| Tue, 05-03-2011 - 9:29am |
Two weeks ago my trigger was buying Easter candy for my kids.
| Tue, 05-03-2011 - 9:29am |
Two weeks ago my trigger was buying Easter candy for my kids.
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The triggers can be very hard, especially the first year.
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Katniss
Broken,
Thank you all for your encouragement and support, I really need it.
Kat
DL, I'm with you. Avoidance doesn't work for me. Forcing myself to listen to the song, or read the same book, or look at the photos of the hotel room (it's being used in nationwide advertising) helps harden my heart and sure up my resolve.
I keep reminding myself, over and over: The pain of ending it will not last forever. It will not last nearly as long as remaining in the A.
This pain is bad, but can you tell me it's AS bad? It will pass, as sure as night follows day, and you'll create new memories. You only get to do that by living in each moment - which is all any of us have anyway.
Arohanui - much love - from me. xxx
Hi
Have you taken a stroll through the Healing Library?
Thank You Kat,
You made me laugh, soon to be someone other than BC :)
You really sound like you know the score regarding what you need to do.
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