Gal, I think your reply to kmg6 was incredibly insightful and spot on. It takes a lot more time than most of us ever realized to truly get past the affair that is haunting us. I am over 2 yrs. out of a 3yr. affair, but still feel little twinges and heart tuggings here and there. And believe me, I know better. In response to the original post regarding missing the sex, for me it was never missing the "sex", it was missing the emotional connection. It was never about having the big O with xAP, it was about being held and giving myself to him. But the joke of course was on me, because doing that outside of my marriage, how freaking stupid. I set myself up for more pain than I ever had inside my marriage.
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