Some good news... 7 months NC!!

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Registered: 10-04-2009
Some good news... 7 months NC!!
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Sun, 05-02-2010 - 4:36pm

Hello Beloved Board Members!!

I wanted to share my good news that as of today, I'm officially 7 months NC!! This is a huge milestone for me, because the longest we were ever NC was 7 months, so I'm sailing into unchartered territory! As I say every month for the newbies... you're in for a wild, but rewarding ride. I have had really great days where I hardly think of xAP at all, and then days where I cannot evict him from my thoughts to save my life! I still feel like he could saunter back into my world at any moment, and not think anything of it, but I feel like I'm stronger now, and certainly have the mental clarity to know just how toxic the A was, despite spending 8 years thinking it was so romantic, and yet cruel that I had to be separated from my soulmate (puke!)

I hope all of you are doing well and seeing brighter days in your futures.

((HUGS)) and mad love -
Gal

NC since October 2, 2009.

NC since October 2, 2009.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-31-2009
Sun, 05-02-2010 - 5:15pm

A big high five to you, Gal! I love reading your posts because you are wise and you give me hope that I too will get my life back. I'm still waiting for the days when I hardly think of XAP at all. I'll just follow you!

Best of luck to you as you embark upon your journey into unchartered territory!

((BIG HUGS))

CSN

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Sun, 05-02-2010 - 5:24pm

((GLFC))


Horray to 7 months. My longest break was 9 so when I got to 9 months and a day I knew I was home free. Sheesh, now it seems like it all happened in another life...a very

   ~Iddy~ 


iVillage Member
Registered: 10-20-2009
Mon, 05-03-2010 - 10:43am

I too enjoy reading your post which are filled with wisdom and encouragement.

BE the change that you want to see in the world! Life loves me and I love life! <3
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2010
Mon, 05-03-2010 - 12:31pm

Wow, Gal! 7 months. That gives me hope. Congrats to you. This is HUGE!


Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
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Registered: 04-15-2010
Mon, 05-03-2010 - 12:51pm

OMgoddess - amazing!

You are a huge support and inspiration to me (-:

I hope that today is wonderful for you - and each and every
moment you remember how loved and cherished you are.

Here you go - paving new roads for yourself!!!

My best,

TU.

LC/NC since April 14, 2010

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2009
Mon, 05-03-2010 - 2:34pm
So happy for you!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2010
Mon, 05-03-2010 - 8:50pm

Yahu!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-04-2009
Tue, 05-04-2010 - 9:50am

Oh ladies, you are just too kind.

NC since October 2, 2009.

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